Do you feel stuck in a relationship you don't like?   Would you like to attract the relationship of your dreams? Relationship coaching is a highly effective way to develop a healthy relationship with your current partner, or to attract  the ideal partner to you.

What is holding you back from having the relationship of your dreams?  Your biggest block may be not knowing the secrets to communicating with your partner in a way that establishes healthy intimacy, and trust.  You may find yourself playing the blame game instead of communicating in a way that empowers your partner to shift their behavior.  You may also be plagued by strong judgments against your partner which are blocking you from seeing his or her beauty and strengths.  Coaching can help you emerge from these unhealthy games, and teach you the skills for relating with others in ways that empower them, satisfy your needs, and support your overall well-being. 

Have you been trying to manifest the ideal mate for years without any results? Some of the common reasons that people do not succeed in manifesting their ideal partners are a negative attitude, limiting beliefs, and an inability to be intimate.  If you are trapped in negative attitudes, people tend to sense this negativity and do not want to enter into a relationship with you.  Who wants to be with someone who is always critical or judgmental of others?  Coaching can help you become aware of where you are stuck in negative mindset, and teach you highly effective techniques to transcending these limiting  emotional states. 

Also, if you have a belief that you will never attract the perfect mate, or that the ideal partner does not exist, you will never manifest the right partner for you.  What you believe is what you receive.   Coaching will support you in shifting your belief system around relationships so that you begin sending out the right vibration to attract your ideal mate.

Who can benefit from relationship coaching?
You could be the perfect candidate if you are someone who:

• has already processed out some of your emotional issues around relationships by doing therapy, and would now like to embrace new healthier ways of relating with your partner.
• feels stuck in a negative relationship, and wonders if you should leave the relationship.
• has the strong desire to create a deeper heart connection with your partner.
• is plagued by loneliness, and doesn't seem to be able to manifest a partner that meets your needs.
• hates something about their relationship, and wants to make a change.
• is tired of a condescending or critical way of relating to your partner.
• is committed to deep exploration and growth, and knows that your relationships are your ultimate teachers.

How would relationship coaching benefit me?
Relationship coaching can help you:

• discover why you get triggered or upset by certain things your partner says or does to you, and learn how to put an end to this behavior.
• define what your needs are in the relationship instead of sweeping these needs under the rug.
• learn to ask for what you need instead of hoping your partner will guess your needs.
• create a healthier way of communicating with your partner based on mutual love and respect.
• set boundaries with your partner, and learn effective ways to enforce these boundaries.
• gain clarity on whether a specific relationship is still right for you, or whether it is time to move on.
• discover how to empower your partner so that he or she makes changes that support your relationship.
• eliminate critical attitudes that are sabotaging your relationship.
• learn and implement the secrets to attracting a new partner to you if you are not currently in a romantic relationship.

What is the difference between relationship coaching and therapy?
Therapy is about processing through emotions and feelings that have been created from some sort of trauma in your past.  In therapy you are normally involved in some sort of analysis about your childhood relationships and how they are impacting your current relationship.  The emphasis in a therapeutic environment is often (but not always) on the past, and fixing an issue.  Therapy is very valuable to most people, and I often recommend that my clients get therapy if they have not already done so.

Coaching offers you something different, and complementary to most strictly therapeutic processes.  As a coach, I help you gain clarity on what you truly need in your current relationship, and coach you on how to shift your communication style so that a new kind of relationship emerges.   The coaching process is centered on gaining new perspectives about yourself, and supporting your personal empowerment.  It is especially helpful if you have already benefited from the therapeutic process, and feel that there is still another level you would like to attain in the arena of relationships. 

Please note that I do not do therapeutic processes with my clients, and will refer you out if you need this kind of assistance.